Stupider Than I Thought

I used to think I was quite intelligent. Who knows? Maybe I actually was intelligent. But I’m so thankful now that I never thought of myself as better than anyone else, because the reality is that I keep being reminded that I’m so much more stupid than I once believed myself to be. I’ll explain shortly.

This morning started with another glorious lie-in, since Walter had the day off again. But once I got up, I had to do something I didn’t want to do. Walter recently found out that we could have been reimbursed for some medical expenses last year, through a program that we knew nothing about. So he wanted me to present proof of all the prescriptions I’d gotten. And the deadline is this week.

Well . . . I didn’t save the receipts, because we don’t have insurance and there didn’t seem to be any point. So the next best thing seemed to be to go to the drugstore where I get my most expensive prescription, and see if they could generate some kind of report showing all of last year’s drug purchases. This is exactly the kind of thing that introverts hate doing, because it means we have to walk into a place of business and interact with someone.

So I gave myself a little pep talk and drove over there and explained my situation. And the perky young girl behind the counter assured me it would be no problem. Ten minutes later, I had a very neat and official-looking printout of all last year’s purchases of that one expensive drug. We should get reimbursed for at least some of those expenses. I hope.

While I was out, I also stopped by the credit union, and topped off the gas tank. Then Walter took the car up to Lowe’s to buy replacement ballast and tubes for our kitchen fluorescent lights. Fluorescent lights were all the rage in the 1950s when this house was built, and the one right over the sink/stove work area has been out for months. It is so expensive to replace the bulbs and the ballast, so we had to save up for a while. It sure is great to have a well-lit work area again, though.

Early in the afternoon, I took off on an adventure. My friend Angela had found out about a yarn circle that meets at the Rusk County Library, and we agreed to check it out today. This involved driving to Henderson, a beautiful drive at this time of year, and one we used to make every week when we went to church there.

Angela was waiting for me at the library, so after I took the last parking space in front of it, we asked for directions. The yarn fest was on the second floor, which I’d never seen and which I immediately fell in love with. Beautiful old building with a tall wide hallway with a line of big pillars down the middle. The yarn people had gathered in a large room with a huge long table.

I don’t know quite what I expected, other than to tell you about a knitting group that my own local library had several years ago. It was run by a rather pretentious transplant from Chicago who I think saw us all as country bumpkins. I think the most we ever had was seven or eight people, and when Miss Chicago transferred to another library, the group died instantly.

Today’s group was quite different. Loud, friendly, and even boisterous. I didn’t do a head count, but I think we had close to twenty people, including a couple of men. All the fiber arts were welcome, though most were crocheters. I sat next to one of two other knitters (Angela is currently working on a crochet project). One of the ladies had brought gift bags full of crochet supplies for those who might be just learning. So thoughtful. And these ladies were all very Texan.

Which brings me to my stupidity. I had brought my cardigan to work on, and even laminated the lace pattern, so I pulled it out and started knitting . . . only to find out less than fifty stitches in that my stitches weren’t lining up properly. Gah! How hard can it be to keep track of a nine-stitch repeat? Don’t answer.

You know how they say that someone can’t chew gum and walk down the street at the same time? Well, I apparently can’t talk and knit lace at the same time. The error almost certainly occurred while I was talking to my friend Jane yesterday. So instead of making progress on my cardigan this afternoon, I laboriously tinked back stitch after stitch, row after row until I needed to leave.

I checked out the book sale on the ground floor, and also visited with my friend Linda, our former pastor’s wife, who happens to work at that library. I was very proud of myself for walking out without any new books. Certainly not the very disturbing encyclopedia of murderers I found.

I arrived at the house to find my husband industriously cleaning the guest room windows until they sparkled. They really needed a good cleaning, but that’s one of those chores it is hard to get around to.

We headed off for an early supper at Texas Roadhouse as a belated birthday celebration, since Walter had been given a gift card. We both ate too much. As in, I was in physical pain because I so rarely have a large meal like that.  

When we returned, Walter tackled the living room windows and I tackled some more tinking until I was sure I had removed the offending stitches. By the end of the evening I had knitted back up to where I was before and added another row or two.

Did you celebrate Pi Day today? We were far too full from supper to even think about eating pie!

Feeding My Soul

Yesterday in church our pianist played a fantastic postlude—a medley of Tchaikovsky’s Piano Concerto #1 in B♭ minor (my all-time favorite concerto) and “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.” I am so grateful for the fantastic music we have at church. It feeds my soul.

Otherwise, it was a pretty normal Sunday. I took a nap, and later we Zoomed with some of the kids. I was hoping more of them would show up, since Walter’s birthday is this week, but we’re happy to see any of them! And of course we both were entertained by Paisley and Eliana. When Flynn asked Paisley to say hello to me, she said, “I can’t. I’m doing something else.”

In the evening we watched the first two episodes of the new season of Clarkson’s Farm—which strengthened my resolve to never attempt farming in the UK. So much government intervention!

Today my primary goal was to make as much headway as possible on cleaning up after the fabric sale, because we’ve got guests coming in later this week, and our guest room has been fabric central for some time now. So now all the fabric has been properly put away in plastic tubs which Walter has hauled up to the attic to wait until fall, when I plan to have another sale.

I also spent a considerable amount of time during my neighbor Kim’s visit tinking (pulling out) hundreds of stitches on my new cardigan. I got to the third row of the pattern before realizing that I had screwed up on the first row, and the pattern wasn’t lining up properly. Grrr! And along the way, I managed to drop two stitches which I didn’t notice until I was finally knitting my way back up to where I’d gotten before I noticed my mistake. Now I’m on row #6 and everything appears to be fine.

Jasper came for lunch today after doing yardwork this morning, and then stayed to work some more on cleaning out his room. Then he asked me to make a pot of chai for him to take to his game night tonight. The catch was that it had to be made with oat milk, because one of his buddies can’t have dairy. So I made a gallon of oat milk chai, and because oat milk isn’t anything like real milk, it looked strong enough to strip the paint off a battleship. Very dark. But apparently no one had a problem with it and most of it was consumed with gusto. Jasper brought the thermos back at the end of the evening. Not sure when we’ll see him again. And I sure hope he and his friends are able to sleep tonight.

Parting Shot:

Look what’s blooming in front of our house! Therefore I must quote one of my mother’s favorite poems:

If of thy mortal goods thou art bereft
And from thy slender store
Two loaves alone to thee are left,
Sell one, and with the dole,
Buy hyacinths to feed thy soul.

~ Saadi (1184-?1283), Persian poet

Seventy-Five Percent

Can you believe the year is three-quarters over already? Today is also a significant day for our family as it is our daughter Mercy’s birthday. Born in Africa eleven months after I suffered a devastating miscarriage with severe blood loss, Mercy was our tiniest baby at only nine pounds. She is still the “runt” of the family at only 5’9”, but she makes up for it with personality. She is thriving at her new job and we look forward to celebrating with her next weekend when we are in Dallas.

Meanwhile, I of course had to go to Aldi this morning and was dismayed to see several things on my list missing from the shelves. Which means more errand running in my future.

Shortly after I returned home, my friend Robin came over for a visit. I got some tinking done while we talked. Last night I discovered an error in my knitting which can’t be disguised, so I am having to tink back several rows. *sigh* I was almost to the next stage of the project too!

I did some more fabric sorting but may be setting that aside for a few days so I can finish a couple of urgent sewing projects.

I also had to water my garden. It has been several weeks since our last rain. The days are still quite warm but the evenings are cooler, so watering isn’t quite the chore it was a month ago. Still, I’d rather have rain.

We finished the evening by watching the new Rings of Power episode. I had to give up on my tinking as it takes close attention and I was trying to watch the screen. And my eyes are killing me. Last night at the restaurant my eyes became very irritated by smoke in the air, so today started off badly and got worse. My right eye in particular feels like someone took sandpaper to it. Really hoping that another night’s sleep helps.

Tomorrow, I head north for a one-day writers’ workshop. I’m feeling a little daunted as this is a group I’ve never interacted with, and I’ve had social activities going on for seven of the last eight days, and I am very close to being peopled out. I hope that the two-hour drive there and back will afford me some needed downtime.

Parting Shot:

Mercy at one year old.

Tink, Tink, Tink

I spoke too soon last night. Today I found a place in my knitting where the yarnovers didn’t line up as they should. One place. I tried and failed to fix it on the spot. A great deal of tinking ensued. *sigh* At least 600 stitches.

My neighbor Kim came over this morning since it didn’t work out for her to come yesterday afternoon. We were kind of waiting for it to start raining, but it never did. Jasper had a yard job today, so he was gone all morning.

I’ve been working on some writing and editing, so that took up much of my afternoon. However, I also tried a new thing. I had a whole pork loin and instead of roasting it the traditional way I decided to use the sous vide feature on my Instant Pot again. I had to cut the roast in half and put it in two separate bags to be able to fit it in.

When the roast was done, I pulled it out and put it under a broiler for a few minutes to brown the top. The meat was quite juicy and not dry at all like it sometimes is when I roast it in the oven. No doubt I will use this method again.

After supper I sat down with my knitting, finished all the tinking, and then started following the pattern again. This time I think I got it right. That’s what I get for trying to follow a chart and watch a video at the same time. I took the time to focus and I have now gotten past where I was when I discovered the error last night. Sometimes you can “fudge” a pattern and it will still look pretty good, but this wasn’t one of those times.

Rice Cakes, an Airport Run, and 1200 Stitches

You know why I didn’t post last night? Because I went to bed at 9:00. You know why I went to bed at 9:00? Because I had to get up at 3:30 this morning. You know why I had to get up at 3:30? Because I had to take Lina to the airport to catch an early flight out of Dallas.

Yesterday, though, I did one of the things I had promised Flynn we’d do while he was here, and that was make rice cakes. I had formed them into balls the night before, and yesterday morning we fried them. (Flynn has tried to do this on his own with disastrous and fiery results.) I rarely make rice cakes because of the time and work involved, and it’s an indication of my love for my son that I made them this week, because I can no longer eat them myself.

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As I believe I’ve mentioned before, these rice cakes are one of the things we ate for breakfast every single morning at my boarding school. I love them so much.

So anyway, at least everyone else got to enjoy rice cakes for breakfast!

In the afternoon, Lucy dyed Flynn’s hair, but I’m not allowed to reveal it yet. Lina returned from her two-week trip just in time to join the others for a pizza dinner. She was home a total of nine hours before we left this morning at 4:00 a.m. She’s spending the weekend with a friend from college days.

Meanwhile, I drove straight home from the airport and managed to get here in time to say goodbye to Flynn! He is visiting friends in Dallas today and will continue on his way home to Colorado tomorrow. It sure was a treat to have him here with us.

This afternoon I took Jasper to a 4-H skit practice. While he did that, I sat at the end of the room and tinked the 1200 stitches of doom. I am still working on my project that has 640 stitches per row. A couple of days ago I realized that I had made a mistake. A pattern row was one stitch off all the way around. Then I had knitted another row on top of it. This project is not one that lends itself well to “frogging,” which is when you just pull the needles out and rip it back. I did not want to have to pick up 640 stitches. So instead I painstakingly un-knit them one stitch at a time. This is called “tinking” (“knit” backwards). Now I’m back to where I was before I screwed up!

Parting Shot:

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Redbuds are in full bloom right now.